When Ronald Reagan was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, he announced his condition to the American people in a letter dated November 5, 1994, stating “I intend to live the remainder of the years God gives me on this earth doing the things I have always done.” He was able to.

Other than a brief hospital stay in 2001 when he broke his hip, he was tended around the clock by caregivers in his home. His wife Nancy was able to continue making public appearances (the two of them championed are search foundation for Alzheimer’s). He loved chocolate, and continued to enjoy the good things in life as long as he was able until his death in 2004.

Not everyone will be as lucky as Ronald Reagan was.

Jacqueline lived in Ottawa all of her life and spent her last seven years in a personal care home. Her daughter was horrified.

The staff at the personal care home worked hard but they were burnt out, and there were just too many residents and too few staff. Jacqueline spent time in a dirty diaper. Towards the end of her life, she had trouble eating. The staff did not have the time to help Jacqueline with her meals. She was prone to falling, and she was eventually in a wheelchair. When her mind began to fail, she was restrained in the wheelchair so she wouldn’t get up and try to walk on her own.

Her daughter was able to make arrangements with an understanding employer allowing her to take two hours off in middle of the day to go and feed her mother in the personal care home. She visited Jacqueline twice each day. She stopped taking out of town vacations. There would be no one to feed mom and clean her up if the daughter went on a winter vacation somewhere warm.

Jacqueline was blessed with a daughter who lived in the same city who was willing to roll up her sleeves and put her life on hold for a few years. Her daughter knew her mother’s likes and dislikes. Jacqueline hated hospital-cooked fish, and her daughter made sure she never, ever, had to eat it. Jacqueline’s name and some of the facts have been changed to protect her privacy.

What will happen to you and me if we find ourselves in the same situation as Ronald Reagan or Jacqueline?

You may have no children. If you do, they may live far away. If they live close at hand, can they put their lives on hold? Do you want them to?

You can control your destiny with a little forethought and a little money.
First, you will need a financial plan to guarantee your future care. Can you afford, like Ronald Reagan, to stay in your home and have private nurses and home-care workers come in? If that is too expensive, could you afford to have a private nurse or home care worker come into the personal care home each day for eight hours? Four hours? Two?

Some people are willing to deplete their wealth and leave a smaller estate to guarantee their own comfort and care. Others want the extra help, but not to the extent that it robs the next generation.

Second, you may need a very special and customized power of attorney or other legal instrument to make sure that your wishes are implemented on a mandatory basis.

Third, if you want the job really done right, you need to take the time to assemble personal information for your future caregivers. If you, like Jacqueline, get squeamish at the sight of the salmon they serve in health care institutions, your caregivers need to know that. If you, like Ronald Reagan, love chocolate, your caregivers need to know that. If you love NFL football, and like the idea that you would be parked in front of a TV every Monday night to watch it, your caregivers need to know that. All of this should be written out. A family conference might be a good idea to discuss your plans after they are perfected.

Part of this is guaranteeing yourself that you will get all the care you need. Part of this is protecting your family from the burden of trying to do it themselves.

All of this is doable with a little elbow grease. Start now, or hire someone to coordinate everything. There is at

least one consultant in Calgary who specializes in helping families work through and develop coordinated care plans.

Next week’s column: Choose your executor carefully.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Lawyers draft wills that are all business. The fun starts when people take up a pen to draft their own will, without the assistance of a lawyer.

Henry Durrell left a will providing that one of his three nephews would inherit his mansion and extensive estate in Bermuda. Which nephew? The will directed that the three men decide the question by throwing dice. They met at their late uncle’s mansion in Bermudaon March 15, 1921 to decide the question, as directed, over a pair of dice. Richard Durrell won.

From the will of Rufus Hatch who died in 1841, a different sentiment: “I earnestly desire that my children shall not gamble in any way for money, as their father has had experience sufficient for all posterity.”

Some wills can be downright nasty. William Dunlop signed a will on August 31, 1842 providing: “I leave Parson Chavasse … the snuff box I got from the Sarnia Militia, as a small token of my gratitude for the service he has done to the family in taking a sister that no man of taste would have taken.”

Not to be outdone, Garvey B. White died in 1908 with a will providing: “…that before anything else is done fifty cents be paid to my son-in-law to enable him to buy for himself a good stout rope with which to hang himself, and thus rid mankind of one of the most infamous scoundrels that ever roamed this broad land or dwelt outside of a penitentiary.”

The famous author Heinrich Heine is reputed to have left a will giving his wife all of his assets but on the condition that she was forced to remarry before she could inherit. His explanation was written into the will: “…then there will be at least one man to regret my death.” A confirmed bachelor died in 1610 leaving a large cash bequest to a woman who had refused to marry him when he was a young man. His will expressed his thanks to her for “a happy bachelor life of independence and freedom.”

Other wills are quirky. The will of Herman Oberweiss was submitted for probate in 1934, short on spelling and grammar but long on character. A sample (preserving the spelling mistakes from the original): “Tell mama that six hundret dollars she has been looking for ten years is berried from the bakhouse behind about ten feet down. She better let little Fredrick do the digging and count it when he comes up.”

Later in the same will: “I want it that mine brother Adolph be my executor and I want it that the judge should please make Adolph plenty bond put up and watch him like hell. Adolph is a good bisness man but only a dumpph would trust him with a busted pfennig.”

From the will of Wayne Morris, actor, who died in 1959: “One hundred dollars shall be expended at the discretion of my closest surviving relatives for the purpose of buying booze and canapés for my friends. On second thought make it three hundred dollars because I don’t want my friends to go away sober or serious.”

Jack Kelly, a successful businessman and the father of actress Grace Kelly, wrote his own will in 1960. It gleams with common sense and kindness: “In this document I can only give you things, but if I had the choice to giveyou worldly goods or character, I would give you character. The reason I say that, is with character you will get worldly goods because character is loyalty, honesty, ability, sportsmanship and, I hope, a sense of humour.”

The credit for collecting these examples goes to Robert S. Menchin, who compiled them in a 1963 book, now long out of print, entitled “The Last Caprice.” It is one of many books and websites dedicated to weird wills and strange bequests.

There is nothing wrong with stirring a little character into your last wishes. Avoid being nasty. Avoid being mischievous. Do right by your heirs. Remember, many of these wills entered the public record only because of the court battles that ensued.

Finally, if you want to keep things calm, use a lawyer to help you plan and draft your will. With a quirky enough plan in mind, the lawyer may mount some resistance. Sometimes that can be a good thing.

Next week’s column: Ronald Regan gives us a lesson in planning for incapacity.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Rita Coupar was born in 1906. The people who knew her over the years, liked her. She was described as bright, cheerful, and dignified.

Rita married but never had children. Perhaps because of that, she was always very close to her nieces and nephews.

Her first husband died when Rita was sixty-eight years old. She remarried. Her second husband was named Earl.

Rita had money. Rita and Earl entered into a prenuptial agreement. They agreed to keep their property separate. Rita then signed a will, giving Earl $5,000, her furniture and personal effects, and the right to live in her condominium for five years following her death. Everything else in her estate was to go to her nieces and nephews.

Her estate ended up amounting to a million dollars or so.

Earl was described as being a man of great determination in all of his dealings. Rita became ill in 1997, and about that time Earl became determined that Rita would leave her million dollars to him or his children — not to her nieces and nephews.

Rita was hospitalized on June 25, 1997. Earl went to a lawyer fifteen days later to see if he could get out of the prenuptial agreement. When the answer to that appeared to be “no,” Earl decided that Rita needed a new will. He went to a lawyer – not Rita’s regular man – and started the ball rolling. Earl met with the lawyer repeatedly before meetings with Rita began. Rita never met with the lawyer alone.

First, they drew up papers to have Rita’s condo put into joint names. If Rita died first, which was looking likely, then Earl would own the condo outright. She signed.

Then Earl had a new will prepared for her. It left everything to him. If he died first, then the will left every thing to his children. There would be nothing for the nieces and nephews Rita was so fond of. She signed that too.

Earl then surprised everyone by dying first. Rita followed him to the grave shortly afterwards on December 23rd, 1998, two days short of her 93rd Christmas.

Earl’s kids came forward and claimed the million dollar estate. Rita’s nieces and nephews hired a lawyer – one who practiced nothing but estate litigation.

They fought through a nine day trial. The judge concluded that the will leaving everything to Earl’s children was invalid. There were two reasons.

First, the judge concluded that Earl placed Rita under undue influence and caused her to sign the new willagainst her wishes. You can persuade a person to leave their estate to you, you just can’t force them. It is a fine line.

Second, Rita lacked the necessary mental capacity to do a will. It was up to Earl’s children to satisfy the judge that Rita still had her marbles. They were up against two doctors. Both said she had lost the legal capacity to sign a valid will as soon as she first became ill. They were also up against Rita’s regular family lawyer – he had spoken to her and kept notes detailing alarming failures of memory at the time.

Luckily for the nieces and nephews, Earl had brought a poor lawyer to the bedside to draft the will. He did not ask the right questions, follow the right processes, or take the right notes. This left Earl’s children without any ammunition they might have used in defending the will. Legally, the onus was on them.

With the new will swept aside, the nieces and nephews inherited everything under the old will.

How much mental capacity does a person need before they can sign a valid will? They have to know what they own, who is in the family tree, and who among those family members might legitimately expect to inherit. They also have to understand what a will does. Finally, they have to be able to grasp all of those points simultaneously in their mind while deciding on the content of the will. Delusions are generally a bad sign.

Doing a bedside will for a person with diminishing mental capacity amounts to a specialty area of law. Attacking and undoing wills done by shoddy lawyers is another one.

All of the details in Rita’s story are taken from the published decision of the court. Names have been changed to protect the family from embarrassment.

Next week’s column: Whimsical wills.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

On June 8, 1948, Mr. George Harris was adjusting a disc apparatus on his farm when his tractor accidentally backed up, trapping him between the two pieces of equipment and opening a large gash on his leg. It was noon. His legs were pinned. He was bleeding heavily. He was alone.

He was found some nine hours later, and was rushed to the hospital where he died shortly after arrival. A penknife was found in his pocket.

A strange detail emerged when the equipment was being cleared away from the accident site. Someone noticed that something was scratched onto the fender of the tractor within reach of where the now dead Mr. Harris had been pinned: “In case I don’t get out of this mess, I leave all to the wife — Cecile George Harris.” Traces of matching paint were found on the knife in the dead man’s pocket. Mr. Harris had spent the last few hours of his life laboriously carving his last will and testament on to the surface of the fender as he grew weaker and weaker from loss of blood.

The fender was cut from the tractor and was actually put to probate at the local courthouse as George’s last will and testament. Today, it sits as a curio in a law school library in Saskatchewan.

How will you spend your last few hours? People procrastinate when it comes to having their wills drawn. George Harris procrastinated.

Perhaps it is because we all feel immortal. None of us thinks we will die today. Perhaps it is the reverse — having our wills done forces us to face the certainty of our future death head-on. Whatever the reason, people procrastinate.

Otto G. Richter died in 1960 after scrawling his will onto a hospital chart, a will that would ultimately dispose of an estate worth six million dollars.

Lorolina Nordquist was lost in the woods and found a shack where she wrote her last will and testament on the wall with chalk, fearing she would never find her way to safety. Age seventy, weak and unconscious, Lorolina and her will were found by rescuers. She recovered. No one was forced to cut away the wall of the shed and haul it up the stairs at the courthouse to be put to probate. It was touch and go.

Pause for a moment. Imagine spending your last hours in this world trying to improvise a will.

How can you break the cycle of procrastination? Pick up the phone. Call a lawyer. My firm limits its estate planning practice to clients with a net worth in excess of $2 million, but there are lots of other lawyers out there. We make referrals. By the end of the day, have an appointment scheduled for two or three weeks from now. No matter how you do it, just get some first step scheduled.

Adding this as an item to your “list of things to do” is a cop out. It has been on your list of things to do for years. What you need is a first step, and one that is scheduled with another person. That does two things. First, it creates a deadline, and second it creates an obligation to that person to show up and do something. Here is the key. As that first step occurs, book a second step — whatever that happens to be. You need to create a chain of steps that culminate in a signed will.

You may be busy working on your excuse as you read this. “I have to be prepared before I call a lawyer.” “I can’t make my will until I talk to the kids about the cottage.” “My wife and I can’t agree on who should take our underage children.”

Those kinds of thoughts will get you a date with a penknife. Take the first step.

You will find that the excuses melt away once you get your feet moving. The lawyer can help you prepare. The cottage discussion can take place mid-stream. The will can be concluded even if you can’t agree on who should take guardianship of your underage kids.

Next week’s column: A woman’s fading memory makes her will invalid.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers. ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Hugo Herman Krupp died on February 6, 1994. He was survived by three adult children, a son and two daughters. They found a will their father had signed seventeen years earlier in 1977. It divided the wealth equally among them. Everything started out well.

Over the months that followed, one of the daughters named Hailey claimed she found two additional wills signed by her father. If either of the new wills were valid it would revoke the will dividing everything equally. Depending on how things played out, Hailey would inherit everything and her siblings would inherit nothing.

The first will she claimed to have found was supposed to have been signed two days before Hugo died. Hugo had been suffering from advanced dementia long before that date. No one other than Hailey, even for a moment, thought he had the mental capacity to make or sign a will on his deathbed. He was just too far gone. It was clear that the deathbed will was not worth the paper it was written on.

Suspicions would have been running high by this point.

A few more weeks passed. Hailey then told the family that she had found the second will, this one dated in1980 and leaving everything to her. It was typed out in normal form and used standard language.

Her siblings believed it was a forgery and headed to court.

Their lawyer hired a forensic document examiner, Ms. Diane Kruger. She studied her specialty in Toronto and then in England, and had been sniffing ink for years in private practice. She gave expert testimony.

A signature is a complex thing. When you sign something the pressure you place on the pen fluctuates. At some points you press hard and at others softly. That damages the paper. By studying dozens of samplesignatures under a stereo-microscope, a person’s signature is characterized not just as a trail of ink left by pen strokes but as a pressure profile. Forgers don’t understand that. A forged signature is generally made with a constant pressure.

A signature is also made with quick fluid strokes. A forger moves the pen slowly and it quavers – more evidence. Forgers don’t understand that either.

Here, the everything-to-Hailey will showed all of the hallmarks of forgery: steady pressure and quavering. Worse, the clever expert pointed out that the signature was very, very similar to signature found on the first of the three wills. She concluded it had been traced.

Hailey had tracked down the old lawyer, Mr. Alfred, and he swore an affidavit for her stating that he was present and witnessed Hugo’s signature. That was a problem for the siblings. He was cross-examined. Mr. Alfred was not dishonest, just ill-equipped. He had no real memory of signing the will, and had no notes or records. This was common to the legal dark ages of the 1950s and 1960s before lawyers were educated by angry courts – lawyers must make and keep detailed notes. He swore the affidavit because he did not know there was a fight going on, and his signature looked right. It was forged too.

The judge threw the everything-to-Hailey will out of court so hard that it is still bouncing.

All of the details in this story were taken from the judge’s decision and are a matter of public record. Names have been changed to save the family embarrassment.

How common is will forgery? Common enough that we have been hired to fight four will forgery case in the last three years.

Do forgers get caught? Once someone raises the red flag – yes.

Sleuth work often uncovers discrepancies. The witnesses might turn out to have been dead when they supposed to have witnessed the will, or out of town. Things are odd, or out of place. Dozens of details can trip upa forger.

Experts are a forger’s worst nightmare. They put signatures under stereomicroscopes. They study the type of paper. It is very, very difficult for the forger to escape discovery once the hunt is on and the will is placed under scrutiny.

Someone has to raise the alarm. How many forged wills get by without scrutiny? No one knows. If no one raises the alarm, the hunt never starts.

Next week’s column: The danger of procrastination.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers. ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Jack and Sandra Taylor have two children, a son who lives in New York and a daughter who lives in Vancouver. The Taylor’s lived, worked, and retired in Toronto. They have no plans to move. With cheap airfare they manage to see their son and daughter several times a year.

Their son in the US is a stockbroker. Their daughter in Vancouver is a dentist. They are both married and have families of their own. Neither the son nor the daughter will be moving back to Toronto.

All of that is well and good, but presents a challenge to the Taylor’s when it comes time to hire a lawyer and write a last will and testament. If Jack and Sandra were to die tomorrow, each of the two children would inherit approximately $1.5 million from their parents. The different tax systems in the two countries demand different estate planning strategies.

For their daughter here in Canada, they set up what is called a “testamentary trust.” It is designed to reduce her annual income taxes after inheriting. She will not receive her inheritance directly. Instead it will be paid to her as a trustee of a trust established under her parents’ wills. The trust will hold her inheritance and invest it in stocks, and bonds, and mutual funds. The income will be taxed in the hands of the trust on a separate tax return filed by the trust. That gives access to a separate set of graduated tax rates. The first $40,000 or so in income will be taxed at the bottom tax bracket at the lowest rate applicable under the Canadian income tax system. The rest will be taxed at progressively higher rates as the income earned in the trust works its way up from one tax bracket to another. Without the trust, and with a daughter living in B.C. (a high tax jurisdiction) all of the income on the invested inheritance would be taxed on the daughter’s personal tax return at the top rate of 46%. Why? The daughter’s income as a dentist ensures that any additional income she earns in her own name is taxed in the top tax bracket. This strategy will secure about $11,000 per year in income tax savings for the daughter. That will add up nicely over time.

It will not work for the son. He lives in the US. The tax rules are different there, and there is no annual tax advantage to generating income inside of a trust.

The son will be subject to US estate taxes when he dies, even if he retains his Canadian citizenship. Those taxes can be heavy, amounting to as much as 45% on his worldwide assets at death. While there is a substantial exemption available, the son will still expect to pay hefty US taxes. The strategy for the son is to keep his inheritance out of the pot for the purpose of calculating his US estate taxes.

To do that his mother and father create a US style inheritance trust. Similar to the Canadian designed trust for his sister, it separates him from direct ownership of the inheritance. The similarities end there. The wording of the two trusts is radically different. Properly drafted, the trust for the son allows the inheritance to skip a generation of US estate taxes at his death, and still allows him to benefit from the wealth while living. If the inheritance sitting in the trust were $1.5 million at the son’s death, this can save as much as $675,000 in taxes.
The Taylor’s are real. Their names and other details have been changed to protect their privacy.

A surprising number of well-heeled clients in Calgary have children who have moved to the US. With proper estate planning, they can navigate the shoals of the tax systems in both Canada and the US. None of this is an issue unless the family has some significant wealth.

Next week’s column: Putting a forged will to the test.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Mr. Paul’s was born in the United States. He married his Canadian wife in 1978 after he came to Canada to work, and has lived in Canada ever since. Financially, Mr. and Mrs. Pauls have done well.

They have a simple idea in mind for their estate plan. All of their wealth is to be inherited by the survivor after the first of them dies. When the second of them dies, they want all of the wealth to be divided equally between their two children, a son and a daughter.

While the estate plan is simple, putting it into operation is not.

There are two reasons for that. First, Mr. Paul’s is a US citizen. Second, the couple has money – lots of it. Together, those two reasons mean that the US government will tax Mr. Paul’s at death.

The US government charges estate taxes against the world wide assets owned by a US citizen or domiciliary when they die. Even though Mr. Paul’s has been resident in Canada for thirty years, his death will trigger taxes in the United States. It makes no difference that he rarely goes back to visit. It makes no difference that all of his assets are located here in Canada. The US government will still tax away a chunk of his flesh when he dies.

Those taxes can be heavy, amounting to as much as 45% on his worldwide assets. The US estate tax is charged against all of his wealth at death, including life insurance money.

He has an exemption available, currently $3,500,000 US. That is a big exemption, but what if his assets total up to $6,000,000? That leaves him with $2,500,000 of wealth in excess of the exemption and in a position where his widow might have to send $1,125,000 to the US government. She may be able to reduce those taxes by a marital credit that is available in some circumstances.

The situation is even worse if Mrs. Paul’s dies first. If she dies first with $6,000,000 in her name alone, to match the $6,000,000 standing in the name of her husband, he inherits the lot. He’ll be left standing with $12,000,000in his name, and the US government will be eager to see him dead. After a $3,500,000 exemption, the total taxes at 45% on $8,500,000 would be $3,825,000 US. Ouch.

The Paul’s want to keep that money for the kids. They hate the idea that they might be forced to finance the US stimulus package.

The taxes can be significantly reduced and sometimes avoided altogether. This involves setting up advanced estate plans including wills that are twenty or thirty pages long.

The Paul’s need two advisors – one providing advice on Canadian income tax and probate fees, and the other providing concurrent advice on US estate taxes and cross border issues. Working as a team, they can offer significant opportunities to reduce both Canadian and US taxes.

You may be sitting back and thinking that this does not apply to you. Actually, it may. US estate taxes apply to many people who are surprised to find out that they are caught up in the system. First, if you were born in the United States you might be a US citizen without knowing it, even though you carry a Canadian passport. Second, even if you are not a US citizen, you may be subject to US estate taxes at death if you are what is called a “US domiciliary.” A US domiciliary can include a person who simply lives in the US for some time under a resident visa, even after they leave. Holding a green card can be sufficient to sweep a person into the net.

Do you have to worry about this if you are an everyday Joe? The exemption amount of $3,500,000 is likely to be reduced by the US government to a smaller exemption of $2,000,000. If your assets are well under 2 million dollars US, including life insurance, you may be able to ignore this. If you have a higher net worth, like the Paul’s, then it is time to worry – unless you like paying big taxes to foreign governments.

The Paul’s are fictional. The problems are real. Their story combines facts from the ranks of clients who consult me each year with US estate planning problems. Some oversimplification has been necessary.

Next week’s column: What do you do if your kids live in the States?

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Seven years ago a trio of Toronto lawyers opened a new law firm. It was a bold experiment. They told the world that they would do nothing but estate litigation. They were true to their word — no house deals, no divorces, no commercial work, no other court cases of any kind. All they did was family fights over family wealth after family deaths.

How did it work out for them? It was wildfire. After seven years the firm had expanded from three lawyers to seventeen lawyers. Work poured in.

The growth was driven by inter-family warfare. Brothers fought brothers, sisters fought sisters, cousins fought cousins, and so on. These were families that would never sit down together for family dinner again — ever.

As the lawyers sat atop the litigation mountain they had created, one of them decided to coauthor a book.

The subject matter of the book was how to avoid a family war over money at death. The central lesson was that the vast majority of estate litigation could be avoided if families were simply more transparent when it came time to do estate planning.

Instead of keeping their estate plans secret, parents should share the contents with the children. They should meet, and talk, and explain. According to the authors of the book, the most powerful tool in avoiding a family fight was a family conference.

A family conference can take many forms. Predominantly, it is a meeting with the client and all of the client’s heirs and family. The estate planning lawyer is often present to referee. The contents of the client’s will and other estate plan documents are shared. Everyone gets to ask questions. The reason for everything is explained. The client answers their family’s questions. Some family members express objections. They receive explanations. Occasionally, the estate plan changes and is improved.

At the end of the day, the hope is that everyone buys in. Minimally, if buy in is not possible, at least the family is mad at the client who is doing the will, not at the other family members and heirs.

Is a family conference for everyone? The authors of the book believe that most if not all families would benefit from a family conference. That may be overstating it. In some situations it is just really, really hard to pick a fight. Everything is patently fair. Everyone is given an equal role. Everyone is given an equal share in the wealth. Equal is hard to fight over.

Other families really benefit from a family conference. Where one child benefits more than another. Where the wills are changed to shift the wealth from one set of beneficiaries to another. Where a family business is being given to the child who demonstrated the most aptitude in running it. Where a cottage is involved.

Disgruntled beneficiaries assume it was all the result of an evil plot. They hire a lawyer after the funeral is over. The lawyer hears, “Mom and Dad never would have given the cottage to Billy if they knew what they were doing – they must have been too old to understand.” Another chestnut, “they depended on Sally for everything in the last year, and must have been terrified she would bail on them – she must have convinced them to change the wills – how could they have said no?”

That sort of noise is silenced if a family conference had taken place when the estate plan was nailed down, giving the now deceased relative the chance to explain his or her reasons. Nothing is better than hearing it from the horse’s mouth. At the end of the day, the family might be mad at the horse, but no one is apt to blame each other.

Any estate planning lawyer who has presided over family conferences comes to swear by them.

Where, for example, a group of children are going to be given unequal shares in an estate, the possibility of a fight hangs like a shadow over the estate plan. Sitting down together, the family can reach a point where each of them understands exactly what is going to occur and why. The parents might tell a son that his share is smaller because he has done so well in life, and they are proud of him. His sister might object to the larger share she is to receive, and the son might assure her all is well and there will be no hard feelings. Both children can be given an idea of the projected value in the estate. The family conference replaces suspicion with understanding.

Sometimes, the best protection is transparency.

Next week’s column: Estate planning for families with US connections.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers. ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Rudy Gutzke was born in the Ukraine and immigrated to Canada, marrying late in life to a woman named Lorna. She already had two children. Rudy never had children of his own. Rudy and his wife grew old together and moved into a personal care home in Winnipeg.

Lorna died on September 20th, 1990. All of their property was jointly owned, and Rudy inherited everything. His will, done eight years earlier, did not speak to who would inherit from him if he died second. That meant that all of Rudy’s wealth, which now included Lorna’s wealth, would pass at his death to his nieces and nephews back in the Ukraine. Lorna’s children would get nothing (stepchildren not forming part of his family for inheritance purposes). They would have viewed that as a problem. Within four days of Lorna’s death, the stepchildren had discovered all of this and approached a lawyer to have a new will drafted for Rudy – one that would make them, not his extended family, the beneficiaries of his estate.

The lawyer visited Rudy’s room at the personal care home and met with him for 15 minutes. Rudy told the lawyer he wanted a will prepared leaving everything to the stepchildren. The will was prepared and signed that same day, on September 27th, 1990.

Rudy died a few years later, and gave birth to some spirited litigation. The stepchildren claimed his estate under the new will. His extended family came forward and attacked the will, saying it was invalid and claiming his estate as their own.

Delay is dangerous. By the time Rudy tried to write his new will he was in a personal care home, had already suffered a stroke, and had been seen by a psychiatrist who knew that Rudy’s mental powers were deteriorating. It fell to the lawyer to defend the will he had prepared by satisfying the court that Rudy had the necessary mental capacity at the time the will was signed. He failed.

The will was overturned by the Manitoba Court of Appeal in 2003. This story is taken from the court’s written judgment (the names have been changed to avoid embarrassment). The extended family got everything. Lorna’s children lost any inheritance. The lawyers enjoyed a fat payday.

Don’t leave your estate planning until it is too late. If you die unexpectedly, you might die with no will at all.

If you fail to tackle your estate planning until you are too old or sick, then the task of helping you put a valid will in place becomes a big, difficult, and expensive job best suited to a specialist lawyer.

Rudy’s stepchildren should have found a lawyer who would have met with him for two hours, not fifteen minutes. Who would conduct a detailed interview relating to his family history, assets and wishes, not a lawyer who behaved like a short-order cook, simply asking Rudy what he wanted and then serving it to him. They should have found a lawyer who would interview the staff at the care home, secure a written opinion from the psychiatrist, and create a detailed file to document his or her conclusions for future reference. The lawyer they hired did none of those things and kept no notes at all.

If all of the proper steps had been followed, the lawyer might have been able to satisfy the court that Rudy had the necessary mental capacity and the will would have withstood attack.

Good estate planning allows people to pass wealth from one generation to the next while minimizing taxes and structuring special arrangements to improve the lives of beneficiaries. It takes time. Deathbed instructions, grunted in pain into a lawyer’s ear, deny any realistic opportunity for good estate planning. Delay also makes it easy to get it wrong and, like Rudy, leave a legacy of unnecessary litigation.

Some lawyers make a study out of overturning estate plans done too late or with too little attention to detail. What is the recipe for successful litigation? Have a will done at a person’s deathbed, or late in life when capacity is in question, change the person’s beneficiaries under the new will, and stir in a lawyer who spends less than an hour with the client. Pure gold. Don’t let your estate be a lawyer’s next payday.

Next week’s column: The absolute best way to avoid estate litigation.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers. ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.

Thelma L. Russell signed her last will and testament in California on March 18, 1957. Handwritten on a filing card, it was short and to the point: “I leave everythingI own, Real and Personal, to Chester H. Quinn & RoxyRussell — Thelma L. Russell.”

More than one judge puzzled over her will after Thelma died. The problem with her will was not that it was brief, not that it was handwritten, but that Roxy Russellwas her dog.

Witnesses testified that Roxy was a pet Airedale Terrier owned by Thelma at the time she made her will. What is more, the dog died shortly after the will was signed.

Arthur Turner, an owner of a local pet cemetery, told the court that Roxy had been buried on June 9, 1958. Other testimony established that Thelma replaced Roxy with another dog. While it answered to the name Roxy, the new dog was in fact registered with the American Kennel Club as “Russell’s Royal Kick Roxy.” The Roxy sheowned when she died was not the Roxy she intended as a beneficiary when she wrote her will.

How much money was in the estate? More than enough to fight over.

Chester Quinn was the person named as the second beneficiary, alongside Roxy, to receive the other half of the estate. He had been Thelma’s tenant for twenty-five years in a rental unit she owned. Chester claimed the dog’s share. Thelma’s nearest family member, a niece, claimed it as well. No claim was advanced on behalf of Roxy, but the litigants fought like dogs through two levels of the California court system nonetheless. The niece ultimately won.

The canine tale of Roxy Russell illustrates the danger of do-it-yourself estate planning. A dog cannot inherit. A lawyer on his or her first day on the job would have raised the alarm. The danger of writing your own will is the danger that Thelma R. Russell encountered. It is easy to get it wrong.

The tale also raises the topic of special arrangements for the benefit of pets. People assume that they willsurvive their pet. Yet hundreds of thousands of pets are orphaned every year. A cat or dog often occupies a special spot in the heart of their master, but rarely a special spot in the master’s estate plan. A dog, or cat, or parrot, can be set up for life. It just has to be done right.

Trust laws were developed by judges in the early 1800’s to allow special types of trusts for the care of pets. A person, called a trustee, is given a sum of money along with the written legal instructions to hold the money in trust and use it for the ongoing care of the pet. Canadian tax laws, however, have complicated the use of trusts to the point where a trust for the care of a pet is has become an option reserved for the rich and eccentric.

More recently, organizations across Canada like the humane societies in Manitoba and British Columbia have implemented special programs intended to assure a good home for people’s pets after they die. The master makes a gift to the humane society in their will, and the organization makes a commitment to finding a new home for the pet after the master dies, and depending on the program may even pay future veterinary bills. No formal trust is required, but the minimum gift to gain entry to the program can be large. Only a portion ofit will be tax deductible. The Calgary Humane Society has no formal program in place, but may be in a position to make arrangements on a donor by donor basis if contacted in advance of death.

Another option is to make a conditional gift in a person’s will. Thelma could have left $10,000 to a friend onthe condition that the friend take her dog, whichever Roxy she happened to own at her death, and promised to give it a good home. This can work well. It is less complicated than a formal trust, but is an honour system. Once the friend takes the pet (and the cash) there is no one to check up on the situation.

At the most basic level, pet owners should consider having a simple conversation with a friend or relative who is willing to commit to taking the pet if the master dies. Nothing enters the owner’s will. Often “nothing” isbetter than a misguided attempt, like Thelma’s, to do-it-yourself.

Next week’s column: An Ontario man changes the landscape of Canadian charitable giving.

John Poyser practices as a wills and estate lawyer with The Wealth and Estate Law Group (Alberta). A former chair of the Wills, Estates and Trusts Section of the Canadian Bar Association, he co-authors a textbook for lawyers and accountants on trust and estate taxation. Contact him at (403) 613-2128 or jpoyser@welglawyers.ca , or visit www.welglawyers.ca

© John E. S. Poyser 2009.

This article was current when it was written. No effort has been made to update it. It is not a replacement for legal advice.